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She opened the door after which she saw Prasanth standing at her doorsill

"Close the door and come in" Swathi directed him in her usual didactic tone

Prasanth bolted the door and sat on the chair which she showed hihty dress and sat in front of him She kept her eyes peeled at him with her usual smile on her red lips and uttered earnestly:" Now tellfrom me" She conditioned

"But before that, you should not hed at his strange stipulation and shook her head "Never; I won’t mistake you"

There are eleven reasons one falls in love

Falling in love is a quick way for one to undergo rapid self-expansion One proenerate generalattractionand the social factors and circu This includes similarity of people’s beliefs and, to a lesser extent, si Propinquity: This includes fa ti about the other, or anticipating interaction with the other Desirable characteristics: This general attraction attribute is particularly focused on an outer physical appearance that is found desirable and, to a lesser extent, on desirable personality traits Reciprocal liking: When the other person is attracted to you or likes you, that can increase your own liking Two further factors that can help explain why people fall in love involve mate selection (Aron, et al 1989): Social influences:A potential union that satisfies general social norms, as well as acceptance of the potential union within one’ssocial network, can contribute to people falling in love By contrast, a union that does not satisfy general social norms or is not accepted by one’s social network, can result in people falling out of love Filling needs: If a person can fulfill needs for coreater chance that the other person will fall in love with hienvironmentcan spark passion, even if the environerous or spookySpecific Cues: A particular feature of the other , parts of their body or facial features) Readiness: The more you want to be in a relationship, the lower yourself-esteemand thetime alone with another person can also contribute to a develop the other person and uncertainty about what the other person thinks or feels, wondering when he or she will initiate contact can also contribute to passion Theexperiences of love was finding certain characteristics of the other person desirable, as well as reciprocity of the experienced emotions There was athe factors that spark passion (eg, readiness, arousal/unusualness) There was a low toperceived as similar to the research participant Work inneurosciencesupports these findings in psychology The neurochemical profile of people who are in love is characterized by low levels of the satiation chemical serotonin (Zeki, 2007) In this respect, the obsessive component of new love makes it si, then, that several of the passion-generating factors, including arousal/unusualness, readiness, and mystery, correlate both with the propensity to fall in love and with increased anxiety Blood levels of adrenaline and otherstresscheued by Dutton and Aron (1974), feeling increased levels of adrenaline is so in love with a person Dutton and Aron (1974) found that more men fell in love with an attractive female interviehen she asked the suspension bridge) coe) So, even in the absence of most of the other predictors of the onset of ro situation can cause us to fall in love with that person Another interesting feature of love is that a felt proxiher levels of the reward andmotivationches Aron et al (2005) used functionalto study people ere intensely in love froraph of their beloved and then, after a distraction-attention task, they viewed a photograph of a fahtened brain activation in the right ventral teght postero-dorsal body and medial caudate nucleus--dopamine-rich areas associated with reward and raphs of the individual the subject was in love with So, when you are in love, the i andThe self-expansion model proposed by Aron & Aron (1986) can explain be used to explain this result: When a person conceives of their love interest and hiht union, the desirable characteristics of the beloved trigger a reward response This can proo out of our way to be with our potential partner in order to experience theof reward The self-expansion model also predicts that the similarity and propinquity factors should have a paradoxical effect in initial stages of falling in love but should have a nificant influence on the duration of love (Acevedo & Aron, 2009) The main reason is that familiarity and similarity make it less likely that the other person will constitute an expansion of you, once you include him or her in your life These predictions are consistent with findings in neuroscience Low levels of serotonin are likely counteracted by similarity and fa in love (Zeki, 2007) At later stages of a love relationship, however, these saher levels of theattach chemicals oxytocin and vasopressin, which have been shown to increase during the phase of a love relationship that fosters ro(Zeki, 2007)